:: An Inside Look into How a Man Attracts a Woman :: How to Get Women to Date You :: How to Get Her Outside the Club :: How an Ordinary Guy Did Some Extraordinary Things with a Very Beautiful Woman :: What Women Want in a Relationship :: Are Strippers Really Crazy :: How Intentionally Messing Up Your Chances with a Woman Can Skyrocket Your Success :: How to Approach and Meet Women :: Do Strippers Make Good Girlfriends :: How to Be a Nice Guy and Still Get Women :: How to Destroy Shyness Step-by-Step :: How to Get Women to Approach YOU :: Three Laws of Attraction Every Guy Has to Know :: When Did You Lose Your Virginity :: How to Be Treated Like a VIP :: The Stripper Girlfriend Mystery :: How to Get a Womans Phone Number - the Right Way :: Can Average Guys Attract Hot Women :: How to Compel Women to See You as a Sausage with Feet :: Do You Have Bad Behaviors that Keep You from Succeeding with Women :: How to Attract Women - Being the Bad Boy :: Should You Pay for a Woman or Not :: Never Buy a Woman a Drink :: Laid Back Ways to Bust Women :: An Attraction Secret I Learned from a Frog :: Why There Is No Such Thing as Failure with Women :: How to Get a Girl for Less Money :: Why Most Pick Up Lines Don't Work and a Better Solution :: Approaching Women with Boyfriends :: How to Pick Up a Woman on the Street :: How to Be the Man Women Love :: Why Should You Date a Stripper :: Why Neither Behaving Like a Jerk nor Acting Like a Nice Guy Will Attract Women :: Actual Game Conversation :: Why Women Never Call You After a Date :: How Does an Average Looking Joe Stand Out from other Guys and Have Women Picking Him over the Rest :: Do You Know How to Meet a Woman on the Street :: How to Create Instant Attraction and Have Women Chase YOU :: How to Kiss a Woman - without Rejection :: How to Start Meeting More Women Tonight :: The Two Magical Traits that ALL Women Are Attracted To :: How to Turn a Friend into a Lover :: Is Meeting Women a Chore for You :: How to Instantly Spark a Womans Attraction for You :: How to Talk to Women over the Phone :: You Are Not Special :: How to Attract Women - How to Impress Women :: How to Meet Women in Nightclubs and Streets :: Its Friday - Do You Know Where Your Women Are :: The Psychology Behind Triggering Attraction in Women :: The First and Most Basic Step to Becoming Successful with Women :: How to End Your Fear of Approaching Women :: The Most Effective Way to Pick Up a Woman :: How to Meet a Woman When Shes with Her Friends :: Five Myths Preventing Men from Attracting Women :: Openers for All Situations :: Common Problems Guys Have with Women :: The Ultimate Mistake Men Make with Women :: The Secret to Approaching Women and Starting Conversations :: Do Women Want to Be Hit On :: A Question from a Girl :: Do You Know When a Woman Is Checking You Out :: What if You Blow It with a Woman :: Push-Pull - A Powerful Way to Trigger Attraction Inside Women :: Why You Must NEVER Compliment Women :: How to Find a Girlfriend

:: Integrative Awakening :: So Goes the Nation :: A Complaint Free World :: The Authoritarians by Bob Altemeyer :: Enron - The Smartest Guys in the Room :: Energized Hypnosis :: Out There Radio :: Warrior Sage :: The Golden Hummingbird

:: Random Hostile Reality Tunnel :: Change Your Behavior - Change Your Life :: Lecture by John Dean - Author of Broken Government :: Dreaming - The Beginning :: Demons - Tricks - Danger and Despair :: Flying among the Apartments :: Learning the Archetypes :: Furious Family Holiday Reunion :: Beating My Bully :: The Magician :: Zombie Nightmare :: My Brother and I Saving Lives :: The Juice-Box - The Lie - Golf-Cart Road-Rage :: In the Village :: Cats in the Ocean

:: Do You Know When a Woman Is Checking You Out :: The Psychology Behind Triggering Attraction in Women :: Are Strippers Really Crazy :: Do Strippers Make Good Girlfriends :: What Women Want in a Relationship :: An Inside Look into How a Man Attracts a Woman :: How to Get Her Outside the Club :: The Stripper Girlfriend Mystery :: How to Get Women to Date You :: How to Turn a Friend into a Lover :: Why You Must NEVER Compliment Women :: How to Approach and Meet Women :: How to Compel Women to See You as a Sausage with Feet :: Why Should You Date a Stripper :: How an Ordinary Guy Did Some Extraordinary Things with a Very Beautiful Woman :: Never Buy a Woman a Drink :: Approaching Women with Boyfriends :: Laid Back Ways to Bust Women :: Push-Pull - A Powerful Way to Trigger Attraction Inside Women :: How to Be Treated Like a VIP :: Do You Know How to Meet a Woman on the Street :: Is Meeting Women a Chore for You :: Actual Game Conversation :: Do Women Want to Be Hit On :: How to Be a Nice Guy and Still Get Women :: Why There Is No Such Thing as Failure with Women :: When Did You Lose Your Virginity :: How to Find a Girlfriend :: Why Women Never Call You After a Date :: How to Get Women to Approach YOU :: Three Laws of Attraction Every Guy Has to Know :: Random Hostile Reality Tunnel :: Energized Hypnosis :: Should You Pay for a Woman or Not :: Can Average Guys Attract Hot Women :: How to Create Instant Attraction and Have Women Chase YOU :: How Intentionally Messing Up Your Chances with a Woman Can Skyrocket Your Success :: The Two Magical Traits that ALL Women Are Attracted To :: The Secret to Approaching Women and Starting Conversations :: How to Attract Women - Being the Bad Boy :: So Goes the Nation :: How to Talk to Women over the Phone :: Do You Have Bad Behaviors that Keep You from Succeeding with Women :: How to Meet a Woman When Shes with Her Friends :: How to Destroy Shyness Step-by-Step :: How to Be the Man Women Love :: The Ultimate Mistake Men Make with Women :: An Attraction Secret I Learned from a Frog :: You Are Not Special :: The Golden Hummingbird :: Lecture by John Dean - Author of Broken Government :: How to Attract Women - How to Impress Women :: How to End Your Fear of Approaching Women :: How to Get a Girl for Less Money :: Openers for All Situations :: Why Neither Behaving Like a Jerk nor Acting Like a Nice Guy Will Attract Women :: How to Instantly Spark a Womans Attraction for You :: Dreaming - The Beginning :: How Does an Average Looking Joe Stand Out from other Guys and Have Women Picking Him over the Rest :: A Complaint Free World :: Why Most Pick Up Lines Don't Work and a Better Solution :: The Most Effective Way to Pick Up a Woman :: Cats in the Ocean :: Integrative Awakening :: Learning the Archetypes :: Common Problems Guys Have with Women :: How to Meet Women in Nightclubs and Streets :: How to Get a Womans Phone Number - the Right Way :: What if You Blow It with a Woman :: A Question from a Girl :: The First and Most Basic Step to Becoming Successful with Women :: How to Kiss a Woman - without Rejection :: The Authoritarians by Bob Altemeyer :: Warrior Sage :: In the Village :: The Magician :: Furious Family Holiday Reunion :: My Brother and I Saving Lives :: Zombie Nightmare :: Enron - The Smartest Guys in the Room :: Out There Radio :: Flying among the Apartments :: The Juice-Box - The Lie - Golf-Cart Road-Rage :: Beating My Bully :: Change Your Behavior - Change Your Life :: How to Pick Up a Woman on the Street :: Five Myths Preventing Men from Attracting Women :: How to Start Meeting More Women Tonight :: Demons - Tricks - Danger and Despair :: Its Friday - Do You Know Where Your Women Are

:: An Inside Look into How a Man Attracts a Woman :: How to Get Women to Date You :: How to Get Her Outside the Club :: How an Ordinary Guy Did Some Extraordinary Things with a Very Beautiful Woman :: What Women Want in a Relationship :: Are Strippers Really Crazy :: How Intentionally Messing Up Your Chances with a Woman Can Skyrocket Your Success :: How to Approach and Meet Women :: Do Strippers Make Good Girlfriends :: How to Be a Nice Guy and Still Get Women :: How to Destroy Shyness Step-by-Step :: How to Get Women to Approach YOU :: Three Laws of Attraction Every Guy Has to Know :: When Did You Lose Your Virginity :: How to Be Treated Like a VIP :: The Stripper Girlfriend Mystery :: How to Get a Womans Phone Number - the Right Way :: Can Average Guys Attract Hot Women :: How to Compel Women to See You as a Sausage with Feet :: Do You Have Bad Behaviors that Keep You from Succeeding with Women :: How to Attract Women - Being the Bad Boy :: Should You Pay for a Woman or Not :: Never Buy a Woman a Drink :: Laid Back Ways to Bust Women :: An Attraction Secret I Learned from a Frog :: Why There Is No Such Thing as Failure with Women :: How to Get a Girl for Less Money :: Why Most Pick Up Lines Don't Work and a Better Solution :: Approaching Women with Boyfriends :: How to Pick Up a Woman on the Street :: How to Be the Man Women Love :: Why Should You Date a Stripper :: Why Neither Behaving Like a Jerk nor Acting Like a Nice Guy Will Attract Women :: Actual Game Conversation :: Why Women Never Call You After a Date :: How Does an Average Looking Joe Stand Out from other Guys and Have Women Picking Him over the Rest :: Do You Know How to Meet a Woman on the Street :: How to Create Instant Attraction and Have Women Chase YOU :: How to Kiss a Woman - without Rejection :: How to Start Meeting More Women Tonight :: The Two Magical Traits that ALL Women Are Attracted To :: How to Turn a Friend into a Lover :: Is Meeting Women a Chore for You :: How to Instantly Spark a Womans Attraction for You :: How to Talk to Women over the Phone :: Integrative Awakening :: You Are Not Special :: How to Attract Women - How to Impress Women :: How to Meet Women in Nightclubs and Streets :: So Goes the Nation :: Its Friday - Do You Know Where Your Women Are :: A Complaint Free World :: The Authoritarians by Bob Altemeyer :: Random Hostile Reality Tunnel :: Change Your Behavior - Change Your Life :: Lecture by John Dean - Author of Broken Government :: The Psychology Behind Triggering Attraction in Women :: The First and Most Basic Step to Becoming Successful with Women :: How to End Your Fear of Approaching Women :: The Most Effective Way to Pick Up a Woman :: How to Meet a Woman When Shes with Her Friends :: Enron - The Smartest Guys in the Room :: Five Myths Preventing Men from Attracting Women :: Energized Hypnosis :: Out There Radio :: Openers for All Situations :: Dreaming - The Beginning :: Warrior Sage :: Common Problems Guys Have with Women :: The Ultimate Mistake Men Make with Women :: The Secret to Approaching Women and Starting Conversations :: Do Women Want to Be Hit On :: A Question from a Girl :: Do You Know When a Woman Is Checking You Out :: What if You Blow It with a Woman :: Push-Pull - A Powerful Way to Trigger Attraction Inside Women :: How to Find a Girlfriend :: Why You Must NEVER Compliment Women :: The Golden Hummingbird :: Demons - Tricks - Danger and Despair :: Flying among the Apartments :: Learning the Archetypes :: Beating My Bully :: Furious Family Holiday Reunion :: The Magician :: Zombie Nightmare :: My Brother and I Saving Lives :: The Juice-Box - The Lie - Golf-Cart Road-Rage :: In the Village :: Cats in the Ocean

Heretical Realities

An Exploration of Realities Beyond the Accepted

How to Find a Girlfriend

Written by Nick Shane

Sunday, 23 September 2007

OK look …

This is actually pretty simple if you know what women are looking for in a guy. To be honest, I can tell you right now WHY you haven’t found a girlfriend yet.

See, you may have found a special woman you WOULD LIKE to be with, but she just doesn’t feel attracted to you.

She does NOT feel the same way towards you than you do to her.

How come?

Because you didn’t give a woman what she needs to feel sexually attracted to you. She may think you’re a nice guy and a good friend, but that’s as far as it goes. She doesn’t see you as a potential boyfriend or lover.

And that really sucks … so we need to change that.

So what are you doing wrong? What is it that makes women tell you that “you are a nice guy, but not really for her”?

Well for once…you are a god-damn wussbag!

A woman doesn’t reject a man if he doesn’t have anything to offer to a her like money, a muscular body, a fancy sports-car and good-looks. That’s not the case even thought everybody thinks that way.

It’s not because women think you are a weirdo or you dress like a bum.

It’s not because you think all those stunning women are out of your league.

There I something else.

You haven’t found a girlfriend or a woman that loves you for who you are because you are just being yourself...no, no.

It’s because women don’t like men who act like wimps and clingy nice-guys.

Now…READ MY LIPS: You are a wimp!!

See, you have been YOURSELF all your life…and has it worked? Not really. But you don’t want to become a different person either and I respect that. The good thing is, you won’t have to change at all … you just need to IMPROVE!

I need to show you what really works with women, and give you the necessary knowledge and some of my killer dating tips that actually work in the real world.

Not just any kind of dating tips…I am going to show you how ANYBODY, regardless of how rich, tall or handsome you are can meet and date the kind of women you always wanted!

So why don’t you have a girlfriend yet?

Because nobody has ever told you what to do to successfully attract women. How could you? Most men aren’t born with the gift of making women laugh, giggle and sweeping them off their feet.

It is an art, and if you’ve never really understood why women pick certain men over others, you have some learning to do.

So here’s what I want you to do:

STOP being a wuss!

Don’t kiss a woman’s ass.

Don’t buy them drinks.

Don’t pay them any compliments.

Don’t invite them to dinner or to the movies.

Don’t bring flowers, chocolate, a cuddly-toy or ANYTHING at all!

It only shows a woman that you are a clingy, needy nice-guy who wants to BUY a woman’s affection…and attraction cannot be bought, EVER!

If you do, she will either walk all over you or just tell you that you are a nice guy, but “let’s rather be friends!”. And here’s another thing. The more you want sex from her, a long-term relationship or even just a kiss … the less you will get it.

Women don’t like what they can have right away. If you are too pushy, needy and “easy-to-get”, you are not a challenge for any woman and therefore BORING!

The key is to be interesting!

So STOP what you are doing RIGHT NOW…and get it right!

Nick Shane is a street-smart Dating-Expert and author of the book "Playboyskool" and several other products that help regular guys like YOU become more successful with women and dating. Get his FREE online Dating Tips newsletter at Playboy Skool

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